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MARRIAGE COUNSELING SUCCESS STORIES
From two cold-hearted, mean-spirited, lonely, damaged souls to lovers againDear Dr. Ellen,This letter is for all those individuals who feel hopeless in their situation because they feel their situation is so different from that of others. Hands down, your program is worth every penny! I have purchased a total of $3086.00 (have receipts) worth of books, programs, etc. from the Internet and otherwise! By far, way above and beyond, your program is what saved my marriage. Here is my story. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 2. We have experienced trouble from the start, as both of us come from pretty shady backgrounds when it comes to family, love, and relationships. We were both yellers, arguers, and generally very negative in all aspects of life. During the course of our "brief" relationship, we had cheated on each other, lied to each other, hurt each other verbally and physically, and so much more! Our lives was so miserable, our own children would ask why we are together! We had stopped making love or even just having sex. There was no communication (except to argue over the stupidest stuff), and we had grown so far apart, everyone knew we were heading for the end (including ourselves)! Our marriage came to an end (or so I thought) on 4/18/05 when my husband called me to lunch and told me that he could not take our misery anymore, that he no longer loved me and would be moving out, to get a DIVORCE! My world had ended. I cried for 2 weeks, feeling sorry for myself, angry at him for leaving and completely hopeless in my situation! I had received so much advice in my weeks of self-pity - Forget about him; You'll find someone else; He's not worth it; Count your losses now and move on...Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah! I went on the Internet and did a Google search under, "Save My Marriage." Your site was the top of the listing. I clicked on your link and went through your site, word for word... and WAS VERY SKEPTICAL, so I bookmarked it and went on to the next site, and the next and the next. During that day, I purchased 13 books, 4 audio cassette programs, and even purchased online so-called "marriage" counseling ($60/hr) where they advised for me to move on because, "once they leave, it's beyond hope"! I did not purchase your set at first, because your claims just seemed too good to be true! Your testimonials seemed fake and could not be real, as they sounded just like my situation! On 5/1/05 I discovered my husband was pursuing his ex girlfriend, from his past. I read his emails where they exchanged heated sexual content. He told her that he loved her and always felt like he did. What I read made me feel worse than I had ever felt in my entire life! That night, in my desperation to save my marriage, I went back online and continued my search, always heading back to your site. You see, I was now a "single" mother of three and the amount for your tapes just seemed too much for me to spend... Something told me to give it a shot so I purchased your CD's of "Light His Fire." And began the waiting game for them to arrive. I received my other packages before and during that time, read them and became completely discouraged. They all said the same thing. They all directed me to either leaving or waiting, waiting, waiting. I knew that I could not wait. I needed to take action or I would lose the love of my life! FINALLY, your CD's and workbook arrived! I WAS STILL VERY SKEPTICAL! After spending 7 days reading the same junk (excuse my language) from the other packages, I was CERTAIN that your program was the same! On my way to work I listened to the first CD - and instantly was amazed at how hopeful and motivated your voice made me feel. I felt encouraged and hopeful in my situation that I originally thought was never going to work out! When I listened to your Home Work Assignment #1- I laughed out loud! I kid you not! I really laughed and thought to myself, "is this woman crazy, Geesh! I can't even get him on the phone, let alone tell him what you told me to say. This man, who was giving himself to another woman and who left me and our children." But in your CD you said, "Do it anyway!" So I did. He called to talk to the children, like he did every night. Instead of handing the phone directly to them, as I always do when I see his number on the caller I.D., I took the phone and took a deep breath and said what you told me to say. There was a long silence on the phone and he blurted out, "Are you kidding me?" Following your advice, I stated, "No, I'm dead serious" and repeated what I had said. He just said, "Let me talk to the kids, I don't have time for this crap!" He talked to the kids, hung up and that was that. I was very discouraged, but somehow it motivated me to listen to the second CD. I ended up listening to the next three including the Communication" CD. The next morning, he called me and asked me if I wanted to have lunch. We had a beautiful lunch. He talked about his dreams, his job, his friends - all the things we have NEVER TALKED ABOUT. I never knew my husband had so many aspirations and so many good thoughts and qualities - he was truly amazing. After the lunch, I realized that I did not know him because I never truly listened to him. I had spent so much time focusing on his negatives, waiting for him to finish his words so that I could give him my two cents, that I missed all he was saying to me. Over the next three weeks, I did all your homework assignments. I listened to the CDs over and over, so I really understood all your principles (I still listen when I commute to work)... and applied them all. Now, we are closer than we've ever been. Last night, he told me, "Listen, I love you with all my heart and we are going to be okay, forever!" We made love (LOVE!) for the first time in 8 years...It was amazing! He got up this morning and made love again, kissed me goodbye and said, "I'll see you later my sleeping beauty... have a blessed day...I love you!" Oh my gosh!!! These are words I did not even know he had in his vocabulary, let alone being capable of saying them! Since starting your program there are so many things slowly starting to change: - He's more active with the kids. - He helps me around the house. - He asks me if he can help me. He is becoming everything that I thought HE COULD NEVER BE. My whole house has changed. The kids are happier, calmer and better behaved. I am happier, he is happier. I can NEVER begin to express what a wonderful program you have. What a true contribution to society you are giving, with your knowledge and remarkable ability to convey that knowledge! You've taught me that love has no strings and that the man I fell in love with was inside, waiting for a safe time to come out... that love is a feeling but that true love is an effort that must be nurtured everyday! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! If your program can turn two cold-hearted, mean-spirited, lonely, damaged souls into lovers and friends, then it can do so much for everyone! BY THE WAY: I'm 32, overweight, I did not view myself as attractive, I have not really accomplished much in my life (or so I thought), and really had nothing to offer him but my love. But none of that mattered - looks, accomplishments, money, none of it! If you ever doubt the impact you have on people and their lives, let me put it in perspective for you. You have affected me and my husband. We affect our children. They will affect their children, and so on... We affect our families, our friends, etc. They affect theirs. It goes on and on and on. God Bless You For All That You Do! Signed Happily, Maria R. Los Angeles, California
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